We all should want to live from a place of honor. I fully believe honor opens doors of access, & I support the honoring of leadership in the house of the Lord.
With that said, we do have to agree, there are many times in people’s walk where what they are taught is the opposite of what HIS church actually is.
This is a needed understanding for some to be aware of: It is ok to make the distinction between what Christ says his church is verses what church leadership says it is—because sometimes they aren’t the same. There are things that are man made and not god made.
It is OK to ask questions.
It is OK to seek understanding.
It is OK stand on the word of God over the word of man.